Really?

Today my husband admitted that he is taking the sponges out of the sink (and throwing them out) because he doesn't like so many in the sink.  REALLY?  First of all, since when does he get to decide that?  NOW, if he made dinner and helped clean up the kitchen once in a while.....go for it!  Give your opinion.....but secondly, why does it matter in the first place!?  See what I am dealing with?